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Common Parenting Myths Debunked

Well-intentioned advice passed down through generations can sometimes harm mothers and children. Here is what modern research reveals.

Myth: “Kundli matching tells you about health.”
Medical Truth

Only a blood test can show if you both carry thalassaemia or sickle cell.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesGetting married
Myth: “Rh negative girls should not marry Rh positive boys.”
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An anti-D injection in pregnancy manages it. It is not a reason to avoid a marriage.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesGetting married
Myth: “Insurance can wait until pregnancy.”
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Maternity cover has waiting periods of 9 months to 4 years.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesGetting married
Myth: “Eat for two.”
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You need only about 350 extra calories a day, from the 4th month.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesExpecting a baby
Myth: “Ripe papaya causes miscarriage.”
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Ripe fruit is safe. Unripe papaya latex is the concern.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesExpecting a baby
Myth: “Saffron makes the baby fair.”
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Skin colour comes from genes. Saffron changes nothing.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesExpecting a baby
Myth: “Ghutti or honey cleans the stomach.”
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It delays breastfeeding and can cause infection.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesNewborn, 0 to 1
Myth: “Colostrum is dirty milk.”
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Colostrum is rich in protective antibodies.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesNewborn, 0 to 1
Myth: “Walkers help babies walk.”
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They delay walking and cause injuries.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesNewborn, 0 to 1
Myth: “Smacking teaches discipline.”
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It leads to worse behaviour over time.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesLittle kids, 1 to 5
Myth: “Apps make toddlers smarter.”
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Children learn language from live talk.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesLittle kids, 1 to 5
Myth: “Sugar makes children hyper.”
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Trials do not support this.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesLittle kids, 1 to 5
Myth: “Children are visual or auditory learners.”
Medical Truth

Not supported. Everyone learns better with self-testing.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesSchool years, 6 to 12
Myth: “"Midbrain activation" raises intelligence.”
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It is a scam. Abacus speeds up arithmetic only.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesSchool years, 6 to 12
Myth: “Chess makes children smarter in every subject.”
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The benefits mostly stay within chess.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesSchool years, 6 to 12
Myth: “Sex education makes teens have sex earlier.”
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It delays first sex.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesTeenagers, 13 to 18
Myth: “The HPV vaccine harms fertility.”
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There is no evidence of this. It prevents cervical cancer.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesTeenagers, 13 to 18
Myth: “Asking about suicide plants the idea.”
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Asking directly lowers risk.

Source: Medical review & clinical guidelinesTeenagers, 13 to 18