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Learn how to talk to a child about death

Learn how to talk to a child about death

Plain words, the truth, and never "gone to sleep".

Why It Matters (Clinical Guidance)

  • Say the person died and is not coming back, is not in pain, and that it is not the child's fault.
  • "Gone to sleep" can make children afraid to sleep. Let them choose whether to join the rituals.
  • Get help if sleep, school or mood problems last, or if they talk about harming themselves.
Primary Citation: American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org)
Last checked: October 2026 • Medical review panel forming